Key facts
| Who leads | A civil or independent celebrant, a friend or family member |
|---|---|
| Religious content | Optional — a civil ceremony can include a hymn or prayer if you wish |
| Legal requirements | Register the death and obtain the right paperwork; a ceremony itself is optional |
| Popular options | Direct cremation with a later memorial, natural burial, or a party-style celebration of life |
Your options
Non-religious funerals range from a traditional service at a crematorium to a woodland burial, a gathering in a pub or garden, or a direct cremation followed by a memorial months later. Some families organise everything themselves — see our guide to arranging a funeral without a funeral director.
Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.
Etiquette for guests
What to wear
Whatever the family asks.
What to say
Share a memory or simply say you’re sorry.
Flowers and gifts
Welcome unless donations are requested.
Frequently asked questions
Do you have to have a funeral service?
No. In the UK there is no legal requirement to hold a ceremony. You must register the death and arrange a lawful burial or cremation; many people choose direct cremation and hold a memorial later.