Key facts
| Burial or cremation | Both accepted by most churches; Orthodox churches traditionally require burial |
|---|---|
| Where | Church, crematorium, cemetery chapel or graveside |
| Who leads | A priest, vicar, minister or pastor — or a lay person in some churches |
Christian funerals by denomination
Christian funeral customs differ between traditions. See our guides to Church of England, Catholic, Church of Scotland & Presbyterian, Methodist, Baptist, Orthodox, Pentecostal & Evangelical, Quaker and Jehovah’s Witness funerals.
Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.
Finding a church for the funeral
If the person didn’t have a regular church, the funeral director can suggest one, or you can find a church near you by town and denomination.
Donations in memory to a church or Christian charity are common instead of flowers — you can compare Christian charities before giving.
Etiquette for guests
What to wear
Traditionally dark, smart clothing — but follow any dress code the family requests.
What to say
“I’m so sorry for your loss.”
Flowers and gifts
Usually welcome.