# Quaker funerals

> A Quaker funeral is a “meeting for worship on the occasion of a funeral”: people sit together in silence, and anyone who feels moved to may stand and speak about the person who died. There is no minister or set liturgy. Burial and cremation are both accepted, and simplicity is valued.

Source: https://funeralfinder.org/faiths/quaker/ — FuneralFinder

## Key facts

- **Service:** Mostly silent; anyone may stand and share a memory
- **Leader:** No minister — elders help hold the meeting
- **Burial or cremation:** Either

## What to expect

Everyone sits together, usually in a circle, and silence is broken only when someone feels led to speak. The meeting ends when elders shake hands. Non-Quakers are warmly welcome and are free simply to sit in silence.
Every family and community is different. Use this as a starting point, follow the wishes of the person who died, and ask their faith leader or community for guidance.

## Etiquette

- **What to wear:** Plain, comfortable clothing.
- **What to say:** You may share a memory if you feel moved to; there is no obligation.
- **Flowers:** Usually simple or none.

## FAQs

### Can non-Quakers speak at a Quaker funeral?

Yes. Anyone present may stand and speak briefly if they feel moved to.